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Singer, Karla Bolanos, shares how having an
abortion many years ago is still very present in her life today and how
she has used her experiences to reach others.
The right to life issue has long been a cause very
dear to the heart of both Catholics and
Protestants. For years, the pro-life agenda
has found the support of conservatives everywhere,
and the Christian Music industry is no exception.
During this time a long list of recording artists
have used their celebrity status as a platform to
champion the life of the unborn, offering
financial support, counselling, as well as adoption
alternatives.
As these artists, along with their
industry peers, prepared for the annual Gospel
Music Week in Nashville, Tennessee, the subject
surfaced again, but this time with an unusual
twist - a twist that may create its own
controversy.
Although it's quite common for Christian music
artists to take a stand against abortion, it is
absolutely unheard of for a female Christian
artist to admit she had one. That’s the story of
Karla Bolaños. The prodigal daughter.
Karla recently shared her heartfelt story along
with her first radio single, “Mercy Saw”, to a
room full of radio programmers and other industry
attendees. She didn't really know what to expect
or how well she would be received. It is no doubt
a minefield that many would try to avoid. Like
the story of the prodigal, although the father may
be compassionate, the rest of the family may not
be so understanding. But this artist was, and is,
prepared to face the consequences for the sake of
ministering to young girls and boys alike.
Although Karla took one life, she hopes to save
thousands more with her story.
Karla Bolaños was a normal pastor’s kid. Then young love sideswiped her like
a speeding train. At fifteen, Karla found herself
pregnant by an older man. His campaign to end the
pregnancy, down to setting up the appointment and
paying the fee, was relentless.
Her greatest fear was destroying her father’s
ministry. Despite her desire to have the baby,
mounting pressure and fear tactics left her
believing there was only one way out.
“I didn’t feel I was worthy to ask for God’s
help. I felt like I was on an island…alone and
devastated,” says Karla. The decision that
followed would haunt her for years. Karla kept
her secret hidden for what seemed an eternity. It
was like dying a slow death. Then grace stepped
in.
When Caleb met Karla at a popular Christian
college, it seemed the rest was history. But there was a
hitch. Caleb was a vehement pro-life advocate – a
fact that surfaced well into the courtship. Karla
knew it was time to bring her dark secret into the
light.
The fallout literally sent Caleb into the
wilderness asking God the big question – “Why?”
Together, this young couple grew up in the Lord
fast. With Caleb’s support Karla would have the
most difficult conversation of her life...having
to tell her parents what had happened. Like the
story of the prodigal, her father met her with
open arms, forgiveness and tears that often
express what words cannot say…
Today Karla’s life is filled with happy endings. Her marriage is strong
and her parents are her
biggest fans. Now, after singing on several albums, Karla is about to
release her debut album. “God is a God of grace and forgiveness. That’s
why
I choose songs that minister to people who need
hope…who feel they’ve messed up their lives in
some way,” says Karla. Her website, and on it a clip of her album, is
at www.karlabolanos.com
Article by Darwin Moody
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